Heaven can wait… along as you plan for the road ahead.

Heaven can wait… along as you plan for the road ahead.

A person sacrifices his/her health to make money.  Then they sacrifice money to recuperate their health.  They become so anxious about the future that they do not enjoy the present; the result being that they do not live in the present or the future; they live as they are never going to die, only to die never really lived.  Dalai Lama

So when I’m asked what I do?

The answer is simple!  I help you take care of the future so you don’t have worry, thus allowing you to live for today and tomorrow. I help you succeed!

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According to the Dalai Lama, “a person sacrifices their health to make money”.  So what if I told you I can help you protect your money so you don’t have to sacrifice your health.

When creating our wealth we are often confronted with the risk of not accumulating enough for our future.  During the accumulation phase of life (accumulation phase –  is when we earn money) it is critical that we save for the future, so we can continue to enjoy a comfortable lifestyle into retirement. Our lifestyle ambitions requires us to earn our dreams.  In some cases we tend live beyond our earning potential.  Saving for retirement is often complicated, difficult and a time-consuming task for many.  We often see people delay saving for the future because they want more now.  This is where I can help you succeed.  I work with you to help give you that future so you can live today, within your earning potential, and not worry about tomorrow.  I help make your life simple through planning.

How?

 If I could…

Take the volatility out of the market would you be interested?

Help you protect your assets would you be interested?

Help you protect your earning power would you be interested?

Help you protect your earning potential would you be interested?

If you answered yes, to any of these questions above, it’s time for us to start planning together.  Plan for your future so you can live in the present…let me do what I do best.

I can help you find money that you did not know you were losing willingly or unknowingly by taking the volatility out of the markets.  In doing so I will help you Protect Your Assets through Wills, Health Benefits, Estate planning, and Long Term Care.  I will help you Protect Your Earning Power through Living Benefits.  Finally, I will help you Protect Your Earning Potential with the use of Life Insurance.

This is what I do! I help you plan for the future so you can live in the present. I help you succeed!

So is the Dalai Lama right?  Do we have to sacrifice health for life style?

As long as we do what we love and love what we do!   We know that life is good.  We must enjoy the present as we never know what lies ahead.  So live for today and plan for tomorrow.  If done correctly we will not have to sacrifice our health for lifestyle.

Do you have to sacrifice your money to recoup your health?

In life we are sometimes thrown a curve ball, and our ability to deal with any health issue that comes our way is vital to our recovery.  If planned correctly you will never have to sacrifice the future for the present.  Depending on the health issues you will have a plan in place so that the road to recovery is all that you will have to concern yourself with.

Although the Dali Lama says that people don’t enjoy today because they worry about the past and the future.  I believe that if you plan your personal and families financial security with a vision and purpose you can indeed live worry free to enjoy today.

Unfortunately, we all will die at some point, as it is the cycle life we know.  Live life, enjoy your present and future.

The purpose of our life is to be happy.  Dali Lama

Start planning today and be happy tomorrow.

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Growing Old is Inevitable, Growing up is Optional! But we do have to deal with it…

Growing Old is Inevitable, Growing up is Optional! But we do have to deal with it…

It’s that time again Labour day has come and gone the kids are back in school meaning that summer has unofficially ended. We are back and will have some helpful insights for you to read over the next few months.  All the best from Henley Financial and Wealth Management. www.henleyfinancial.ca

Over the last year, I have been dealing with my mother who has decided that she would like to see my father again. The problem is he died 30 years ago. Yes he left us at the age of 52, the loss was hard but at that time my mother had lots of friends to entertain and years later I started a family. So she always busy and felt needed. Up until a few years ago, my mother was needed as she helped with my children. That has all changed, the girls are now teenagers and don’t even want my help and her friends have passed or moved on so she has been left feeling as though she is no longer needed.  A few years ago, I was telling everyone that she would outlive me. But things changed, life changed, she took her final trip, a trip she had asked me to go on when I was a teenager and of course I refused. It was at a time when I was involved in sports and could not leave my teammates behind. She has traveled extensively but this was her dream destination a month-long trip to China.

 

She has always been a good saver and lives minimally, as she gets older, you can see she is overwhelmed by the costs of things. Her generation is very concerned about finances it is the way they have come through life. Most people over 75 have filled out forms that are 20 pages in length, or do their own income taxes, they live on small incomes, there are Guaranteed Income Supplement forms to fill out, and in her case, a small pension my father left her.

 

As it turns out I have found to maintain their independence, older seniors like my mom need a lot of help with their finances—even if they have healthy savings. Home-care services need to be paid for, bill payments need to be set up, and investments need to be managed. It’s a balancing act and the process is time-consuming, but it needs to be done if you want your parents to age comfortably. Unfortunately, my mother is not aging comfortably as she is suffering from kidney failure and a poor heart. She would not go to the doctor when she was sick she did not think it was necessary… she felt she is no longer needed.

 

Handling elderly parents’ finances is made even tougher by the awkward role reversal. Aging parents are often reluctant to even share financial information with their children, let alone relinquish control. My mother is that in a nutshell. She continues to refuse help on any level. In many cases, you may have no choice but to pick a neutral person to oversee a parent’s finances.

 

That’s why it’s important to do some advance planning before your parents become incapable of managing their money themselves. Every family should have a plan to safeguard their elderly parents’ finances when the time comes.

 

If your parents are having trouble handling their finances, don’t expect them to come to you for help. If they’re like most parents, they don’t want to be a burden. So be on the lookout for subtle signs they may be having problems. Can’t remember if they paid a bill or think they did pay the bill. If they repeat things often, or forget conversations you recently had. I do that to on occasion I guess that comes with age but you will start to notice the signs.

 

Ideally, communication between parents and siblings should start well before a parent needs help. The best time is when parents are starting to talk seriously about retirement. It’s just an intellectual activity then. The longer you leave it, the harder it will become.

 

Understand that total trust doesn’t happen overnight, I have not always had a good relationship with my mother but as an only child there is not much choice. In many cases, it’s hard for siblings to work well together. One often feels another is taking advantage. The key to making it work is transparency on all fronts.

 

Have frequent family gatherings or communicate by email or phone constantly speak candidly about retirement and old age. It will happen it’s not a secret. You should also talk about what happened in the meeting that transpired with lawyers, accountants, and advisors. Then you will be able to understand the process in the future.

 

Gather information

Find out where your parents keep their safety deposit box and important documents. Make a list of their bank accounts and investment accounts, insurance documents, wills and the names of their accountant, lawyer, and financial advisor.

Open a joint bank account with your parents, deposit their CPP and OAS checks into it, and take over all bill payments. You should also find out where your parents’ income comes from, including government and employer pensions as well as RRIF withdrawals and any income from their investment portfolio. Find out who their beneficiaries are, what their financial wishes are, and how they want funeral arrangements handled.

 

Get legal power

While both parents are alive, make sure all non-registered accounts are held jointly: otherwise the surviving parent will need a will and death certificate to access those accounts. Also, ensure your parents have an up-to-date will and estate plan. A loss of capacity either suddenly, such as through a stroke, or gradually as with Alzheimer’s, may mean they never have the opportunity to clarify their intentions.

That’s why it’s also key to know if your parents have in place a power of attorney (POA) for health care as well as for finances and property. A POA will often name a child as a substitute decision maker. That person can sign documents, start or defend a lawsuit, sell a property, make investments, and purchase things for the parent, the POA usually comes into effect as soon as it’s signed and witnessed, but a parent can put a clause in saying it doesn’t come into effect until they’re incapacitated.

 

More than one person can be named as a POA: that way no one can act opportunistically and without accountability. If you’re concerned about mismanagement of funds, make sure your parents include a clause in their POA document that requires the decision maker to submit periodic financial statements to your parents’ accountant, adviser or lawyer.

 

10 key questions to ask your aging parents

You can start by asking your parents these key questions to ensure your family is prepared for the road ahead.

  1. Where do you keep your important papers—wills, investment account statements, life insurance policies, and others?
  2. Do you have a current will? Where do you keep it and when was the last time you updated it?
  3. Have you prepared a power of attorney (POA) documents? A POA designates who will take care of your affairs if you are unable to do so because of illness or cognitive decline. Your parents can designate one person to handle health decisions and another for financial decisions, or they can designate one person for both roles.
  4. Do you have a safety deposit box? If so, at which bank, and where do you keep the key?
  5. Where are your bank accounts? If you are incapacitated, where would I find the PIN and account information?
  6. Do you have credit cards and if so, who are they with? Have you been paying the balance off every month?
  7. Do you have a financial adviser, lawyer or accountant, and what is their contact information?
  8. Do you have life insurance policies? Who is the contact agent?
  9. Do you have any debt and if so, with whom? How much do you owe?
  10. Does anyone owe you money and if so, who?

Hopefully, this will help you start that conversation. I know from experience that once they get sick they have no interest in sharing information.

 

What plan do you have?

What plan do you have?

Life insurance a cheaper alternative to mortgage insurance, experts say

This excerpt released by CBC news network. We wrote about this same program a few months back, it’s always nice to see different perspectives on life or mortgage insurance

Canadians looking to wrap up new home purchases might find that life insurance is a more flexible and less pricey alternative to mortgage insurance obtained through a bank, say personal finance experts.

While most agree it makes sense to cover large debts with insurance, some argue when it comes to mortgages, most consumers treat it as an afterthought and don’t realize that buying through a bank can be a “costly mistake.”

Contact us at info@henleyfinancial.ca we will provide the expertise you need to make an informed decision with better rates than the banks are providing. Saving you money to spend or save in other places within your circle of wealth.

It is important that people know that mortgage insurance is just another piece of a comprehensive financial plan.

When you are not dealing with a professional, unfortunately, you can have surprises and those surprises can come up at the worst time.

Part of the problem, he said, is that most consumers take out mortgage insurance when they close their financing deals with the bank without doing any price shopping ahead of time.

The reason is because they [the banks] ask the questions at the time of the purchase: Would you like to have your house paid off if you die? Would like to have your house paid off if you get sick?  Who is not going to answer ‘yes’ to that?

Possibility for shortchanging

That emotional response, coupled with a lack of knowledge about alternatives, means that some consumers could be shortchanging themselves in the long run.

With mortgage insurance obtained from a bank, coverage decreases with every mortgage payment but the premiums show no corresponding declining balance.

The amount of coverage of their mortgage protection decreases as the mortgage is reduced, however, the premiums stay the same and increase over time.

That means their costs [per $1,000 of coverage] actually goes up as they bring down their mortgage debt. Whereas the amount of protection, when you own personal life insurance, remains fixed throughout the term.”

Additionally, while mortgage insurance pays off the loan’s outstanding balance, only the bank gets paid. In contrast, life insurance will relieve that debt while often leaving something over for loved ones.

Owning on your own life insurance, you have options, noting the leftover money could be used to pay for items such as a child’s education, taxes, and other expenses.

‘Portable’ Insurance

It is also “portable,” meaning that consumers don’t need to requalify for coverage during the term if they buy a new home or switch mortgage providers.

By contrast, those who purchase mortgage insurance through a bank would likely need to requalify with the new financial institution: Potentially, when they do this, they could be older, they could unhealthy and rates could be higher. Which means they may not even qualify.

Homeowners who are healthy and have a good family history can also receive discounts of up to 25 per cent on life insurance premiums. A renewable and convertible term policy can be converted to a permanent product at any time without a medical exam.

Moreover, life insurance is not subject to provincial sales taxes the way that mortgage insurance is.

Going apples for apples, life insurance owned personally is less expensive!

That’s why people really need to go to a professional to see how the insurance fits into the overall plan.

 

Life is unfair on many levels… Protect yourself and your family!

Life is unfair on many levels… Protect yourself and your family!

We are often told by many people we interview, “We don’t need Insurance”, “We are healthy”, and “We live a healthy lifestyle”. “I’m not buying what you’re selling”. I respect that many of them are healthy and live healthy lifestyles, unfortunatly 100% of our population will die at some point in time.

Very often we have no reply because you can’t get someone to buy into the reason they need  protection if they don’t want it to begin with. We have a plethora of lifetime stories that explain the reason there is a need for the products we sell. Again we are met with… “Yeah, but it will not happen to me”.

What do we do?  How do we prepare someone who is invincible?

Yes, we get paid to sell a product that will ensure that your family is financialy secure. What we get paid is pennies on the dollar of what you can do for your families financial security in the future.  Yes, you may not need the products we sell at the time we ask you to purchase protection for yourself and your family, because you are indeed healthy. But should an unfortunate event happen when you are not ready or prepared for it you will have protection. The security of knowing you are covered has to be worth something moving forward.

Here is an unfortunate story of one of the healthy ones, if you told me after the 2012 Olympics this great athlete would pass away within the next four years I would have said you were crazy.

How is this possible?   She was one of the healthiest athletes in the world within her sport. It is unfortunate that I am profiling an athlete in this attempt to show that life threatening Illness does not pick and choose its partner.

Below is an excerpt of a healthy, strong, and very competitive athlete who has recently passed away at a very young age and is survived by a young family. This is a story that unfortunately helps us dipict the need for the protection we provide.

My symapthies go out to her family. Life is unfair on so many levels.

Olympic silver medallist, has died of cancer, aged 33. Tributes have flowed in from around the world, her rowing career was cut short when the mother of two was diagnosed with cervical cancer three years ago.

The three-time Olympian, began rowing while at her high school in Perth. Her talent for rowing was quickly discovered and as a 17-years-old she made the junior national team, where she went on to finish second in the junior women’s four. Two years later she made her first senior national team competing at the World Rowing Cup in the women’s four. The crew then went to the under-23 championships and won gold. She followed it up with a win in 2003 in the under-23 women’s double sculls…

…She competed again in the eight at the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games. She then took a year off from competitive rowing to have her daughter…

…In 2012 Olympic Games she won a Sliver medal in the women’s pair…

… A year later she had her second child and soon after the birth she was diagnosed with cancer. She continued to be involved in rowing, but in February 2014 she stepped away from the sport to concentrate on her health.

The world of rowing will always remember her with love and respect.

Her legacey will live on but unfortunately life can be taken from us at any time.

There is always a need to protect yourself and your family. You have the ability to make a difference, please look at the big picture when deciding your families future.

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