I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave person is not the person who does not feel afraid, but the person who conquers that fear. Nelson Mandela
During the Christmas break we find ourselves looking towards next year. Planning our business model or just looking forward to a change. I always try to pick up a book during the holidays usually a biography as I find them to be most interesting. I like reading about other people’s stories.
Generally what you find in every success is the same pattern, if you have a goal in life and want to succeed you will need to know the following…
- Be clear about your goal.
- Face your fears.
- Trust yourself.
- Embrace the unknown.
- Think big.
- Be brave.
To be successful at anything we do we must conquer some if not all of the above. Life is funny as we are held back by our cautious nature we are afraid of the unknown, our own failure. Because of this most of us never reach our true potential. We read about the successful people who fail more than once and keep pushing forward until finally they reach that unattainable goal for most. Success!
Being clear about your goal – we focus more on what we will lose than what we will gain. Therefore if you are going to lose something you must be clear about what it is you want to gain. There will be no guarantee that success will be accomplished but the answer is ‘NO’ if you don’t ask the question and will always be ‘No’! We must know the answer before we start. So ask the question!
Fear – often gets in the way but we are wired from a young age to be cautious to any potential threat to our own safety. That is not only a physical threat but also a mental threat we will undermine our own ability to asses smart risk from safe risks. Sometimes you have to say “what the heck?” and push forward. If don’t challenge your fear it will become you.
Trust – you must believe in the path that you have set out for yourself. If you don’t have trust in yourself to create the future you aspire to have you will only find regret. There will be days you will be overwhelmed. As long as you believe in the path you have set out for yourself and trust the process. Success will come.
The unknown – We always choose the path of least resistance because it’s the one we know. What if we walk through a door that’s open and we don’t know anyone on the other side. You have two choices turn around and walk back through the open door, or meet new people on the other side. Within a short period of time you will have made a new contact, a new friend, or had a new conversation. At any rate you will have embraced the unknown. Choose a path unknown every now and then you may be surprised at the result.
Think big – we all have dreams, which get us excited. These dreams are awe-inspiring; they are the end result of an idea. We know for a fact that we can’t go from nothing to something without staring with an idea. If it’s a big idea then that’s the end result, and we you need to take small step along that path to achieve the dream. Don’t stop dreaming big dive in with both feet grounded find the solution to create the idea that fulfils the results.
Be brave – Let’s be clear: Living courageously is not the absence of knots in your stomach, a lump in your throat, sleepless nights or sweaty palms. It’s not about being fearless. It’s about fearing less. Everyone processes greatness within himself or herself.
Do not judge me by my successes, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again. Nelson Mandela
Get out of your own way and you will find success!